Have you ever stopped to consider the power of words? How the words you use – whether out loud or in your own head – shape the way you feel? The connection between our thoughts, emotions, and behaviours is well-documented, but what often gets overlooked is how much our vocabulary influences this cycle.
For many of us, the thought of turning someone down feels unbearable. We worry about disappointing others, being seen as unkind, or even damaging our relationships. Questions like, Am I a bad friend, parent, sibling, or colleague if I don’t say yes? can plague our minds. But the reality is: constantly saying yes isn’t always the act of kindness we think it is – to others or ourselves.
Dear December: Why Are You So Stressful?
Not everyone looks forward to Christmas with open arms. For some, it’s a tough, lonely, or downright stressful time of year. If that’s you, you’re probably already feeling the pressure to “be merry,” “have fun,” and “make it magical.” Sound exhausting? You’re not alone.
For others, Christmas is a season of joy: twinkling lights, advent calendars, markets, the smell of pine trees and cinnamon, and cosy evenings with mulled wine and hot chocolate. But even for the Christmas enthusiasts, let’s be honest – December is usually way too busy.
So how can we all survive – and maybe even enjoy – this chaotic season? Here are some simple tips to make Christmas less stressful and a little more meaningful.
At this time of year, many of us find ourselves searching for ways to manage Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD as it’s commonly known. When the clocks change and the dark mornings and evenings set in, it can feel like a real struggle to stay positive, energised, and connected to joy. For those affected by SAD, the six months of autumn and winter can feel like an endless waiting game – hoping for the light, both literal and metaphorical, to return.
GAD is a mental health condition characterised by persistent and excessive worry about everyday situations. Unlike occasional anxiety, which might be linked to a specific event, GAD often involves worrying about many aspects of life – work, relationships, health, or even minor day-to-day tasks. These worries can feel uncontrollable and interfere with daily life.
In today’s fast-paced work environments, burnout has become a widely recognised issue, however, it’s much more than feeling tired after a busy week. Burnout is a serious condition that arises from chronic, unmanaged workplace stress, leaving you physically, emotionally, and mentally drained.
Pregnancy, labour and birth are times when expectant and new parents can be at their most vulnerable. Becoming a new mum is often portrayed as a time of pure joy and fulfilment, filled with precious moments and boundless happiness. However, for many new parents, the reality can be far more complex. Despite societal expectations to …
If you’ve experienced a challenging or traumatic event, you might find yourself grappling with uncomfortable symptoms that interfere with your daily life. Traumatic events can take many forms, and their impact varies from person to person, this blog guides you through what EMDR Therapy is and how it can help. “Trauma touches our lives in …
Experiencing a miscarriage is a heart-breaking and deeply personal event. The emotional toll is profound, but many people are also surprised by the physical changes their bodies go through after the loss. These changes are an important part of the healing process, but they can sometimes feel overwhelming or confusing. This blog offers a guide …
After a loss, the world becomes quiet in ways that feel unbearable. Silence takes over where there once were dreams of tiny cries, giggles, and the soft sounds of a baby breathing while sleeping peacefully. For parents who lose a child, this silence can be suffocating. They often return to homes filled with baby items never to be used, or to the echo of a nursery that never got the chance to hear its occupant.
