Julie Lee

Health Anxiety

Understanding Health Anxiety: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Manage It

Health Anxiety – Have you ever found yourself googling every ache and pain, convinced it must be something serious? Or maybe you’ve been to the doctor multiple times for reassurance, only to find your fears creep back in? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. As a counsellor, I’ve noticed more and more people seeking […]

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Healing after sexual assault

Is Healing After Sexual Assault Possible?

Sexual violence is far too common in today’s world. For instance, According to Rape Crisis England and Wales, 1 in 4 women in the UK have been raped or sexually assaulted after turning 16, often by someone they know. In some parts of Asia, Africa, and the Middle East, those numbers are even higher. But it’s not just women who experience this – men, boys, and transgender individuals are also affected. Healing after sexual assault can feel impossible.

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Why Do I Feel Depressed in the New Year?

Why Do I Feel Depressed in the New Year?

January can be a tough month – it’s cold, dark, and the festive buzz of December has faded. If you’re like me, you might find yourself juggling resolutions that feel more like punishments for enjoying yourself during the holidays. It’s no wonder January often feels like a month full of endless Mondays! A few years ago, I realised that January isn’t just something to endure – it’s one-twelfth of my year and, by extension, my life. Instead of wishing it away, I decided to make the best of it. Here are some simple strategies I’ve found helpful for tackling those winter blues and actually enjoying the start of a new year.

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Counselling or Life Coaching

Looking Back or Moving Forward? Counselling Or Life Coaching

When you’re feeling stuck, lost, or just ready to level up your life, there are plenty of helping hands out there. But it can be tricky to work out whether you need a counsellor or a life coach and this can feel like its own mini-identity crisis. Both sound like they’ll guide you to a better version of yourself, yet these roles are fundamentally different. Think of them as two separate roads that occasionally run parallel but ultimately lead to different destinations.

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Can't Say No

Why Can’t I Say No?

For many of us, the thought of turning someone down feels unbearable. We worry about disappointing others, being seen as unkind, or even damaging our relationships. Questions like, Am I a bad friend, parent, sibling, or colleague if I don’t say yes? can plague our minds. But the reality is: constantly saying yes isn’t always the act of kindness we think it is – to others or ourselves.

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